Re: Invasive tactics (was Re: The important)

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> He can't drag you anywhere unless you allow him to do it. What is really
at
> issue here ? Is it really the way Fooey posts, or is it the reactions that
> he gets ? These reactions are all voluntary. Fooey is not over at your
house
> with a gun at your head forcing you to respond to his posts. You have
taken
> what he has done personally and the only one who will derive grief and
allow
> voluntary self-sabotage is you by taking things personally. Even if
someone
> intends something towards you personally, you are never forced to accept
it
> as such. It is not necessarily Fooey's actions that are suspect here but
the
> motivational reasons behind your and other's complete and utter
willingness
> to be affected by what he does. What type of juice are you getting out of
> this volleying back and forth of what others do to you ?

Eve....Made Up....Ch'an Fu....In Her Visualiztion....
To Torment Herself....And Posts In His Name.....
To Have.....An Imaginary Partner....To Whip Up...
Her Indignant Imagination....In Front Of....The
World....