Always believe the victim!

Another variation on "women never lie about rape" to ignore.

Rich

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http://www.4woman.gov/editor/apr03/apr03.htm

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Always believe the victim. Every time a victim is asked to explain,
justify or convince anyone concerning the assault, we revictimize that
person. We also send the corrosive message that the context, and not
the action, defines the assault. When I say, someone stole my car, or
wallet, I am not required to convince someone that I didn't want them
stolen, or that I was not culpable in the theft. When it comes to
sexual assault, however, we often place such harmful and unjust stress
on the victim. Think about it!

Hold the perpetrator accountable. Often we allow the context of the
assault or the situation and life style of the perpetrator to excuse
or lessen their culpability. The star quarterback, the highly
respected community leader, the clergy, the uncle or the aging
grandfather can all be perpetrators. We should not allow their status
or importance to justify their crimes or rob us of justice. Think
about it!

If we begin to understand these basic notions, we also begin to take
responsibility for our values and our social response to sexual
violence. Someday you may be on a jury, or read an article in the
paper dealing with sexual assault and you will think about the choice
we all must make for safety and justice. You will discover
opportunities to influence our social direction, whether it is in the
way you raise your children, or in how you make political choices. You
will also discover opportunities to discuss sexual assault, express
your opinions, and challenge subtle messages of harassment and
disrespect.

In accordance with this empowerment message, the National Sexual
Violence Resource Center (NSVRC) is promoting its new slogan,
nationwide, "Decide to End Sexual Violence!" The imperative speaks to
each of us and empowers us. It is up to us to decide and act. Our
first step must be to understand how prevalent, costly and harmful
sexual victimization is, and then to know that each of us has an
important role and responsibility. "Decide to End Sexual Violence!"

For more information on sexual violence, the NSVRC, or Sexual Assault
Awareness Month activities, contact Susan Lewis, 877-739-3895,
extension 102 or visit www.nsvrc.org. The National Sexual Violence
Resource Center is a project of the Pennsylvania Coalition Against
Rape.