Re: For feminists - The bottom line about rape

>DEDHeather94 wrote:
>
>>>>>i'm all in favour of you exercising your rights.
>>>>
>>>>
>>>>That was a stupid reply.
>>>
>>>I dunno. I've had a bad week, and I rather liked it. Gave me a chuckle.
>>>
>>>;-)
>>>
>>>Cele
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>> 
>> Everything ok Cele?
>
>Not really, no. I think probably we'll get through things. I have known 
>for some time that for T to agree to therapy there would almost 
>certainly be at least another crisis in her healing process, but still, 
>they're hard when they come. I would absolutely love to talk to the 
>regs, but I just don't see a safe place to do it. I would be grateful 
>for feedback, actually.
>
>Those regs who would be willing to let me think out loud with them, 
>could email me at cltemple at shaw dot ca I guess.

And you can email me too, Cele.  Anytime.  :)


>That sounds all clandestine and silly, doesn't it? I don't mean to be 
>melodramatic. I just know my limits, and I can't deal with a lot of 
>abusive stuff right now on this topic.


Totally understandable what with the new batch of slimy trolls lately.  

>Anyway, we'll be fine. T will make it. I just wish it was easier. And 
>I'm sure she wishes it even more than I do. And the good news is, she's 
>agreed to therapy.

Yaaaay!!!!  :D

 Seems bought in and everything. I think she's 
>catching on that she's not likely to get that last stretch without help. 
>And frankly, I'll welcome some skilled input, because I'm worn out and 
>won't mind having someone share the responsibility for helping her 
>through.....

Absolutely.  Your love carried her thru in a miraculous way but she probably
also needs an objective outsider to vent to.

>Hey. D is coming down soon! On the 21st.

Yaaaayyy again!  :)

 D has turned into such a great 
>person. I miss her to bits, the little butt.

LOL!

 But she's coming on the 
>21st!! I can't wait to see her and neither can T.
>
>I'm going to enjoy Christmas if it kills me.
>
>Cele

Well let's hope it doesn't.  :)

Heather