Re: For feminists - The bottom line about rape

DEDHeather94 wrote:

> > > > i'm all in favour of you exercising your rights.
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> > > That was a stupid reply.
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> > I dunno. I've had a bad week, and I rather liked it. Gave me a chuckle.
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> > ;-)
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> > Cele
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> Everything ok Cele?

Not really, no. I think probably we'll get through things. I have known 
for some time that for T to agree to therapy there would almost 
certainly be at least another crisis in her healing process, but still, 
they're hard when they come. I would absolutely love to talk to the 
regs, but I just don't see a safe place to do it. I would be grateful 
for feedback, actually.

Those regs who would be willing to let me think out loud with them, 
could email me at cltemple at shaw dot ca I guess.

That sounds all clandestine and silly, doesn't it? I don't mean to be 
melodramatic. I just know my limits, and I can't deal with a lot of 
abusive stuff right now on this topic.

Anyway, we'll be fine. T will make it. I just wish it was easier. And 
I'm sure she wishes it even more than I do. And the good news is, she's 
agreed to therapy. Seems bought in and everything. I think she's 
catching on that she's not likely to get that last stretch without help. 
And frankly, I'll welcome some skilled input, because I'm worn out and 
won't mind having someone share the responsibility for helping her 
through.....

Hey. D is coming down soon! On the 21st. D has turned into such a great 
person. I miss her to bits, the little butt. But she's coming on the 
21st!! I can't wait to see her and neither can T.

I'm going to enjoy Christmas if it kills me.

Cele