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"Cele" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote in message news:[EMAIL PROTECTED]
On Mon, 1 Dec 2003 14:00:27 +1100, "Darkfalz" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
A lot of women get raped by exercising their rights. Their right to dress slutty and still feel safe. Their right to be alone with a guy they
barely
know, being drunk, and expecting him to respect her boundaries. Their
right
to be sexually assertive, even agressive, but still have the right to say "no" at any time.
Listen, idiots, this is the bottom line.
You may have the legal right to do any and all of those things, but do
you
WANT to be raped? Or more specifically, would you like to AVOID being
raped?
The answer is probably yes.
Curtailing all of the above behaviours will massively minimise your risk
of
being raped. You have to accept having the right to do something doesn't make you invincible. I may have the right to provoke someone twice my
size,
but if I do it I'm liable to get my skull cracked. I may have the right
to
walk down a dark alley at night in a bad neighbourhood in expensive
clothes,
but odds are if it happens, I'm going to get mugged - even killed.
Use your common sense and get over this idea that "independence" means constantly tempting fate by doing stupid things.
Rape (outside of prisons) is avoidable in 99.9% of sitatuations. This
goes
for adult women, naturally a child being abused may not be able to avoid
it,
but if you're an adult then you really have no excuse for not keeping yourself safe.
So if you don't want to be raped, it's entirely in your hands. And if you have been raped, for God sakes, LEARN FROM IT and don't let it happen
again.
That's a fascinating take on things.
While I think reasonable safety precautions are a good idea, I'd be interested to know how you think the victim of Marcellus Jacob invoked her own rape by her behaviour. In that case, Jacob broke into the home of a woman he didn't know, duct taped her, raped and sodomised her at knife point, forced various noxious substances including bear spray (pepper spray) into her orifices, and otherwise tortured her for five hours. She was just home minding her own business. Here's the news report: http://www.whitehorsestar.com/ I was in town at the time. I remember it well. It was in the press during my own daughter's hospitalisation for the results of her having been abducted on her way to school and raped at knifepoint for four and a half or so hours - different town, different perp.
One thing I forgot to mention was drinking in excess. There has been a MASSIVE increase in young females binge drinking. Now these women get totally off their face drunk, fuck a guy they just met, and wake up groggy as hell in the morning and believe they are a victim of "drug rape" when they had injested enough alcohol to put them in a coma.
If you can't learn to limit yourself then don't blame others for the consequences when you get too drunk to think or control yourself.
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