Re: The REAL Victim

"Darkfalz" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote in message news:<[EMAIL PROTECTED]>...
> "P Diddy" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote in message
> news:[EMAIL PROTECTED]
> > Damn right a new post so all you can read it, I don't care if I
>  shouldn't...
> > it's what I did. Now I know some people are dealing with SPECIFICS, and
>  you
> > probably already covered this, but let's cover it again ok? We are NOT
> > talking about raped woman, that's ANOTHER thread. This post is about
> > innocent MEN.
> > All of this talk about definitions this....let's not include that...the
> > story below is a real example what happens when a person is wrongly
>  accused
> > PERIOD! I don't give a fuck whether it was on purpose...misidentification,
> > bitch was mentally ill, or what the reason is, it don't make a difference.
> > This is fact:
> >
> > 1. Innocent men are accused.
> > 2. Innocent men are convicted.
> > 3. Innocent men spend years in jail for something they didn't do.
> > 4. It's NOT FAIR. YOU HEAR ME...IT IS NOT FAIR.
> >
> > Now, for all those men in situations like that...what is the FAIR thing
>  for
> > them? I'm not a big believer in reincarnation, so THIS life is it. And
>  this
> > article deals with a man who could fight back. What about countless others
> > who couldn't? Now they have a police record. Depending on when they went
>  in,
> > they may not have skills to do anything. So for the rest of their life
>  they
> > are relegated to the low paying jobs that nobody else wants, resulting in
>  a
> > lifestyle, well you get my drift. But that's ok huh? You've got the fuckin
> > answer. Let's talk about it. Let's debate it. Fuck all of you who think
>  this
> > is ok. It's not. As a society we tend to desensitize ourselves to events
> > happening around us. An earthquake happens and "the death toll
> > rises"....fuck no...death toll does not rise...MORE PEOPLE DIED. If
>  someone
> > spent 20 years of his life for a rape he did NOT commit, what do YOU think
> > should happen? Oh well we made a mistake...my bad? Compensation...if
>  so..how
> > much? Who should pay? The woman, the police, the DA? This is real life!!!!
> > All of you intellects that try to explain why and this and that can just
>  go
> > to hell. You feel real good about yourself because you think you won a
> > debate because of the way you argued this point or that point. Wonder how
> > philosophical you'd be if it happened to someone you cared about?
> 
> Not to mention the quality of life inside, as a convicted rapist, is
> virtually worse than death.
> 
> It amazes me that these women can falsely accuse men and absolutely not care
> about the consequences, especially in countires like ours with victim's
> compensation. The ending of a man's life is worth a few thousand dollars to
> her? My God, that is EVIL.
> 
> If a guy is going to indulge in the modern young single's lifestyle, which
> is the clubbing and picking up and one night stand routine, he needs to
> protect himself - and I don't mean just with rubbers. Any woman who develops
> a grudge on a guy she feels "used" her for sex (when the truth is, she let
> herself be used) can easily totally destroy him just by falsely accusing
> him. Or if a guy wants to leave his abusive girlfriend, she can accuse.
> Ditto for blackmail, rejection or anything else.
> 
> And there is NO PENALTY for being busted for false accusing either.
> 
> And honestly, how can a guy prove he had consent other than by videotaping
> his sexual encounters? A woman can always easily bruise herself up a bit for
> the examination, and considering the money (or revenge) she's going to get,
> it won't deter them.
> 
> I can imagine absolutely no worse fate than being falsely conviceted of rape
> and sent to jail, while she sits on the outside with her money and a big
> smile on her face. And then imagine being up on release and having women
> campaigning to have you stay in there because the "victim" is "scared for
> her life" - indeed, she may be, knowing that she put away an innocent man
> who may indeed want (and deserve) revenge.
> 
> It's a sorry state of affairs.

 I find it hard to believe any woman or child would make up an
allegation of being raped.
 I don't believe anyone gets 20 years for rape.  It is rare you find
someone in jail for 20 years who has committed a murder.
 Maybe you should stop treating your one-night-stands like doggie doo
on the bottom of your shoe.
 It would be hard for someone to plot revenge against someone who was
nice after the act.
 A thank-you or some words of appreciation may help you out of your
pitiful delimma.
 This may have happened years ago.  I do not think this can happen
very easily today.  I have been through the legal system for other
things and when the burden of proof is upon you-it means you have to
prove beyond a resonable doubt.
 As far as me or any other woman choosing- to take time off of work,
lie, conive-just to see someone in the slammer--I don't think so
buddy.
 In fact you can rest assured I wouldn't even go through the system if
it really happened.  The system stinks.
 I am sure small minds plot.  They are usually exposed.  I prefer to
get my revenge by not returning phone calls the next time "the B****
Set Me Uppers" like you get horney and call.