Re: The REAL Victim

"P Diddy" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote in message
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> Damn right a new post so all you can read it, I don't care if I
shouldn't...
> it's what I did. Now I know some people are dealing with SPECIFICS, and
you
> probably already covered this, but let's cover it again ok? We are NOT
> talking about raped woman, that's ANOTHER thread. This post is about
> innocent MEN.
> All of this talk about definitions this....let's not include that...the
> story below is a real example what happens when a person is wrongly
accused
> PERIOD! I don't give a fuck whether it was on purpose...misidentification,
> bitch was mentally ill, or what the reason is, it don't make a difference.
> This is fact:
>
> 1. Innocent men are accused.
> 2. Innocent men are convicted.
> 3. Innocent men spend years in jail for something they didn't do.
> 4. It's NOT FAIR. YOU HEAR ME...IT IS NOT FAIR.
>
> Now, for all those men in situations like that...what is the FAIR thing
for
> them? I'm not a big believer in reincarnation, so THIS life is it. And
this
> article deals with a man who could fight back. What about countless others
> who couldn't? Now they have a police record. Depending on when they went
in,
> they may not have skills to do anything. So for the rest of their life
they
> are relegated to the low paying jobs that nobody else wants, resulting in
a
> lifestyle, well you get my drift. But that's ok huh? You've got the fuckin
> answer. Let's talk about it. Let's debate it. Fuck all of you who think
this
> is ok. It's not. As a society we tend to desensitize ourselves to events
> happening around us. An earthquake happens and "the death toll
> rises"....fuck no...death toll does not rise...MORE PEOPLE DIED. If
someone
> spent 20 years of his life for a rape he did NOT commit, what do YOU think
> should happen? Oh well we made a mistake...my bad? Compensation...if
so..how
> much? Who should pay? The woman, the police, the DA? This is real life!!!!
> All of you intellects that try to explain why and this and that can just
go
> to hell. You feel real good about yourself because you think you won a
> debate because of the way you argued this point or that point. Wonder how
> philosophical you'd be if it happened to someone you cared about?

Not to mention the quality of life inside, as a convicted rapist, is
virtually worse than death.

It amazes me that these women can falsely accuse men and absolutely not care
about the consequences, especially in countires like ours with victim's
compensation. The ending of a man's life is worth a few thousand dollars to
her? My God, that is EVIL.

If a guy is going to indulge in the modern young single's lifestyle, which
is the clubbing and picking up and one night stand routine, he needs to
protect himself - and I don't mean just with rubbers. Any woman who develops
a grudge on a guy she feels "used" her for sex (when the truth is, she let
herself be used) can easily totally destroy him just by falsely accusing
him. Or if a guy wants to leave his abusive girlfriend, she can accuse.
Ditto for blackmail, rejection or anything else.

And there is NO PENALTY for being busted for false accusing either.

And honestly, how can a guy prove he had consent other than by videotaping
his sexual encounters? A woman can always easily bruise herself up a bit for
the examination, and considering the money (or revenge) she's going to get,
it won't deter them.

I can imagine absolutely no worse fate than being falsely conviceted of rape
and sent to jail, while she sits on the outside with her money and a big
smile on her face. And then imagine being up on release and having women
campaigning to have you stay in there because the "victim" is "scared for
her life" - indeed, she may be, knowing that she put away an innocent man
who may indeed want (and deserve) revenge.

It's a sorry state of affairs.