Re: My Wife - Seven Year Itch?

Amos...I just pray for a civil split if it comes to it..if she wants her
space then I will support her...to avoid more debt problems, I would hope
she would work with me and lawyers to make it go smoothly but from what I
hear about most divorces are not this neat. Or are there some "neat" ones?

"Amos B. Moses" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote in message
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> Brian,
>     Reading more of your posts I got this to say: Keep your hands clean,
> don't screw around, lie or hurt your wife - It'll make dealing with the
> divorce harder. This woman doesn't love you, she seems to immature for
this.
> I don't think she'd ever really love anyone, she uses people and she's
done
> with you.
>
> These idiots who think letting your wife have an extra-marital affair to
> "get it out of her system" (or however they rationalize it) ought to have
> their head examined. This woman sounds immature and selfish, she's done
> using you and she's looking for the next bigger and better deal. You won't
> find happiness being around her and she never will. My experience with
such
> people is that they are not capable of loving anyone and always focus on
> what's wrong.
>
> Your young. When I got divorced I was 27 years old. I thought it was the
end
> of the world and ended up living with my mother for two years. Later I met
> the woman who is presently my wife. I was much wiser and more focused on
> goals. We were both older as well. I've been married now for almost ten
> years. She still hugs me, says she loves me and always includes me in her
> life. I'm happy. Your going to meet someone better, you seem like a good
> person because you care about your marriage - you just need to hook up
with
> someone else who can as well.
>
> Good Luck.
>
>