Re: My Wife - Seven Year Itch?

In article <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>, Brian wrote:
> Well, the lawyer part scares me. I don't know what to expect. The only thing
> I really want is the house..
> 
> Let me ask you this..if she gets it, would I be obligated to keep paying on
> it?

It depends on how this is settled or decided by the court. Generally,
one of the two things will happen:

1) the house will be sold and proceeds split in some proportion

2) one spouse will keep house but will be required by the court to
refinance and pay another a similar cash amount to buy the other
spouse out.

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> "Shashay Doofray" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote in message
> news:[EMAIL PROTECTED]
>> > she has been staying up late doing exercise videos
>> > she has gone back on her diet,
>> > secretly going to tanning beds (didn't tell me at first)
>> > sleeping on the couch
>> > avoiding any hugs or other contact
>> > telling me she doesn't know if she loves me or not
>> > rolls her eyes and says "oh brother" when I've cried over his behavior
>> > (takes a lot for me to cry)
>> > avoids talking about "us" to the point where she just closes her ears
>> > she wont fully communicate her issues (that's really always been a
>> problem)
>> > she spent last Friday and Saturday night out with "friends" until 11 PM
>> and
>> > 3 AM respectfully (which she never has done before)
>> > she doesn't email me from work anymore
>> > only talks "business" (paying bills, doing chores, etc)
>> > says she never had a chance to "do what she wants" because she went from
>> > living at home with a curfew (got married at 22) to being married. But
>> I've
>> > never held her back from "going out" if she wanted to.
>> > wont go to counseling
>> > she is basically too busy for me
>>
>> I hate to be the one to say this, but you have ALL the classic signs of
> her
>> cheating on you.  But you already knew this didn't you?
>>
>> > If this helps, she is in a new job where we made enough for us to get
> her
>> > dream car. She also loves this job and people call her giggles and she
>> seems
>> > to like this new attention she is getting. And she really volunteers for
>> > Saturday's a lot now at work.
>>
>> Giggles huh?  Gee sure sounds like she's getting a lot of work done
> doesn't
>> it?  I hope to heck she isn't the head nurse at an ER someplace.  Let's
> face
>> it, your marriage is seriously ill and you better get to a counselor as
> soon
>> as possible if you hope to save it.  Be warned, however, if you do, there
> is
>> a good possibility that it is going to be "all your fault" and that YOU
> are
>> going to have to be the one to change to save it - and even if you do, it
>> probably isn't going to work anyway.  Your wife has to want to save it
> also,
>> and it doesn't sound to me like she does.
>>
>> Get thee to a lawyer, buddy.
>>
>> SD
>>
>>
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