Kea Lani versus Four Seasons--Maui Honeymoon

I hope someone can help us.  I'm booking my honeymoon in Maui (we live
in New Jersey) for March 7, 2004, for two weeks.  I have read a lot of
great things about the Kea Lani and the Four Seasons hotels, and some
others also.  We have decided that we want to splurge, so the
difference in price between hotels is not a factor.  We just want the
best hotel, period.  We are concerend that that the Four Seasons might
have too many kids running around, and we like that the Kea Lani has
an adult pool.  The Kea Lani also has much bigger rooms.  The Four
Seasons has better name recognition and we know a lot of people who
have stayed there who loved it.  I would very much appreciate it if
some people could give us some insight into which hotel in Maui is the
best.  Please post responses to newsgroup.
Thanks a lot,
Charles