receiving rule question

Had this recent experience. I'm cutting. Defender's strategy was to
stay on my heels, i'd cut hard in, the moment i planted to change
direction and cut away he'd put his arms into my back. If i cut hard
away to set up the in cut (or even change directions hard to the other
cone) he'd do the same thing. Guy was not to be reasoned with. When i
decided to start pushing off too, he immediately and loudly called
foul.

Here's the problem: The rules don't seem to provide any sanction for
this sort of behavior. I can call foul, we get a check but the stall
count stays the same anyway, right? So no they're all checked up and
we have less time to get a throw off.

Shouldn't the O get the stall count reset if it's not contested? Is
this already in the rules and i can't find it?

As i understand it, it's probably best not to even call the foul under
these circumstances. Anyone have any strategies for dealing with this
(other than explaining the rules to the guy -- he wouldn't have it,
and we don't have the luxury of playing with observers)?