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On Fri, 21 Nov 2003, Captain Nerd wrote: > > > said. All responsibility is not on the speaker not to cause > > > offense, there is also a responsibility on the listener to temper > > > their instinct for being offended. Either that, or (as I prefer) > > > everyone says what they want, when they want, to each speaker's > > > comfort level. > > > > > *snip snip* > > > > Comfort levels need to be adaptable, though. Otherwise, you risk > > being perceived as not only somewhat tactless, but emotionally > > inconsiderate. > > But I am tactless and inconsiderate! And a "pretentious dickhead" > to boot! ^_^ > I'm tactless and inconsiderate as well (there are rather a lot of us on this group). The way this shtick works is: you don't censor your words until after the fact. So, bumbling idiotboy falls on his face and smashes someone's toes with his face. He _apologizes_ and tries not to do it again. It works for me, and I can be a thickheaded git. But hey, if you really really don't care if anyone reads what you say, do as you please. Lena
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