Re: Having only one child

In article <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>, Jenn says...
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>What I don't understand is why someone who can't have more children 
>would give this a moment's thought.  It is one thing to be trying to 
>decide if one should have a second child -- and polling the net for 
>advice.  BUT if you can't have one - then what is the point of wallowing 
>in it and agonizing over it? Nothing good can come from that for 
>one'self OR for one's child.  Things that can't be changed should be 
>accepted and you move on and focus on the positive. Picking the scab 
>benefits no one.


Well, gee, it might have something do with broken dreams, life plans, what one
envisioned for oneself and one's loved ones through the years.   Just little
things like that....

I mean, if a musician lost an arm, I dont' think the reaction would be "oh well,
no use crying over spilt milk, I can always go into sales..."

Banty (amazed..)