Microsoft Outlook calender/meeting reminders.

Hi all, 

1. I have my mail delivered direclty to the mail-server in "microsoft
outlook"(tools->email accounts). What I mean is that Microsoft Outlook
is getting the mail from the Mail server.please correct me if I am
wrong.

2. Then I have the rule to move all of my mail from "Server inbox" in
Microsoft Outlook to my personal inbox.

3. I can also set it up directly so that my mail is delivered directly
to my personal mailbox (instead of server mail box as it is in step
1.) but in that case my "Microsoft outlook" keep hanging. I don't know
why?

4. The problem is I don't get the meeting reminders though it has been
"checked" for reminders.
After discussing with a colleague of mine , "I think" the problem is :
   "All of my mail is delivered to the server(as in step 1) , then
processed by rule to move to "Personal Inbox", in that process it also
moves everything on calender too. So meeting reminders are being
processed only for "calender" on server NOT "calender" on personal
mailbox.So reminder doesn't see any meeting on "server calender"(as
all of them are on personal mailbox) & hence doesn't get processed, so
(I THINK) I don't get any reminder.

Any idea how can I get reminders..?
Any help will be really appreciated.

Thanks a lot for your time.

Regards
Arun
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