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> Or maybe the ones that bring a reply, and reply to that. To explore the tree > of conversations, to see which brings more conversation? Is conversation > itself the goal? To extend the banter? It's an interesting point. Women, for instance, often engage in "talking for the sake of talking", because they like the feeling that everyone is in dialogue with each other. The actual words themselves don't matter much; it's the act of banter itself that makes them feel close. Women even sometimes feel that they wish they had more problems so that they could start more conversations and have more to talk about. Not to solve the problems, of course -- that's besides the point. They look forward to the getting-together and the talking-about-the-problems and having-the-coffee-together part. Men tend to value content more. For them, there should be some point or end goal to conversation directly attributable to the information in the talk. When men have nothing to gain from talking, they say little -- fathers and grown-up sons and brothers can go for years without picking up the phone, and when they do it's usually to say "How ya doing? I'm fine, yeah. Anything new with you? No? Well, nothing's new here. Okay, see ya." Women find that odd; they could easily exchange talk about what their respective pasts have been like even if nothing new arises in informational terms. To not do so would be to risk appearing unsupportive. In short, most men value data, and most women value feelings. It was actually for the above reasons that (in earlier times, so I've been told) that male scholars weren't sure if most women even had souls, but were instead zombies, because their behavior appeared circularly defined. I personally prefer to believe the situation exists because of evolutionary and biological necessity -- a species composed entirely of male minds or only of female minds would be at a competitive disadvantage to others. As to why each person tends not to contain both mindsets, I imagine that there exists a mutual exclusion about them. It perhaps begs the question of whether we should split the Turing Test into male and female versions. At what point does an AI convince a group of women that it is one of them? Would it be a subset of a male AI's capabilities, or some other set of functionality altogether? Could an AI exhibit both male and female conversational styles without the supposed mutual exclusion? Ray
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