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[EMAIL PROTECTED] (LocalFolk) wrote in message news:<[EMAIL PROTECTED]>... > Larry: >>Agreed. And Longley has been told 100 times by 100 posters in 100 >>different ways (perhaps I exaggerate slightly) that nobody is going to >>"learn" a subject without first being convinced in clear language *why* >>they need to learn the subject. Instead, we get Professor Irwin Corey. > ><my 1,000 word response proactively self-snipped> > >You need to learn the subject so you can drop your "pack mentality" >attacks and be clearer, yourself. To say "Nobody is going to 'learn' a subject without ..." is not the same as saying "Everybody is going to 'learn' a subject with..." For instance, it could just as well be the case that "Nobody is going to 'learn' a subject with." But of course we both understand that it is implied that some people would learn "with" or I wouldn't have bothered to make the statement. If you had snipped my statement, so that your statement stood alone, then it would be different. Your statement would just be telling me I need to learn something. In any case, I'm not one who is a candidate to learn the subject if provided a reason. That is because I've redundantly refuted validity of what you want me to learn without having needed to learn it (i.e. the only thing I would need to be "clearer" about would be the one thing I'm addressing which is the language dogma). The refutation is now up to 5 assertions, none of which have even been argued. You are welcome, but something tells me this is not your cup of tea. The assertions only resolve to probabilities anyway, and you only recently learned that formula. And this would involve another probability concept as well. I wonder if you even accepted that first formula since you never acknowledged. That was kind of strange too. Usually when someone asks me to explain something and I do, they say thanks or no thanks at least "Oh." Well, no reason making a mountain out of a molehill, especially since I explained in an entertaining way (about the tax forms). Well I had posted the straight formula 3 times and it was already redundant and pretentious to post a math formula so much. FYI, if I were a candidate to learn, your reason would not be clear because "pack mentality" is ambiguous. For instance, say it's a "given" that three people must decide for or against Longley. At least 2 people would need to decide the same. If 10 people, then about 6 the same, and 4 the same. Is that what you mean by "pack?" Or is there some commonality between those who are "against" that makes the "pack" analogy work? How about the contrary case of too lopsided evoking sympathy? That has influenced me. Do you think I'm imitating behavior? Anyway, whatever it is, it is unstated and that's what I mean by ambiguous. I might be addressing something you never intended. But if I were a candidate, and it were not ambiguous, it would not be convincing because it is simply too short. Given that someone was going to spend years of study (as Longley suggests are required), that would merit a lot of pages and a lot of factual support. But let's say one could satisfy Longley's requirement with just a week or two of study. That would still merit a couple of pages, then some followup, perhaps a few exchanges to be convinced. There would probably be a list of objections you would be expected to overcome. But let's say one hour of reading would satisfy Longley's requirement. Now you're just talking one page or less, but in clear, unambigous language, and you might expect a question or two. This is how it works in the consulting field. I don't email a sentence to a client, and they rush off to spend a week at my seminar. Well, there's such a thing as a preliminary explanation, like a 10 minute phone call, but then the full explanation would still be required. BTW, agree with "attacks." I'd say "provocation" but still plead guilty. I said I would not provoke unnecessarily, but it seems I have. It may take a while to learn how to neutralize without provoking. I can see it's going to be a judgment call each time, and I'll never achieve objectivity towards it, being as invested as I am already. I really don't want to cause Longley pain. I'm convinced he's in very sad shape, whatever that may mean. Hope this helps and doesn't just piss you off some more. Remember it's not my fault how your phrased your post. My choice is either to correct it or ignore you (which I think is worse). If I don't explain precisely in this group, creates 20 messages of absurdly childish argumentation (not from you). I've been reading your posts. I know you are a mature programmer and I assume equality. Just turns out our two exchanges so far were at my home field. I'd really hate to lose you as a critic because I'm using this group to test ideas, among other things. You know I've probably posted 50 or so on-topic ideas original to the time period I've been here, and only a few have even been questioned? I keep a list but haven't counted them up. Well, I do like to piss people off just enough to motivate them to criticize (giving away a secret there). I have a good reason about these ideas. Oh, while on that subject another thought occurred. You know how Longley demands to always be taken at face value and never acknowledges his implications? Well, I always do. I realize that every time I say "the new posters go through stages with Longley" it is an implied insult to you. Why should I deny it? You're no dummy. We both know you are one of the "new" posters (at least this year) and my statement presumes something that you will do or think. Hey, I'd be insulted. Well, you know I can't cure that. I would really like to, but can't see any way without stopping posting in this group. But maybe I could lessen it by explaining my point of view. Put yourself in my shoes. I was a new poster, I went through the stages. Old posters have said they did. If you read real old messages, other people did too. Now, with you (and Patty) we see the same patterns of the stages. I mean, who has been nicer to Longley than Patty? She gave him the upper hand. She read his site. She discussed his favorite things. She ignored admishments. She was professional, patient, non-confrontational. Etc. Etc. Yet, see what Longley posted this morning or maybe just yesterday: "You seem to be writing (ignorant) nonsense again Patty - have you retained nothing over the past couple of months?" Well, I can't speak for Patty either. But how long do you think an ordinary and prudent person would assume Patty would take this (regardless of how she does in fact take it). And how about those "couple of months." What would that represent in the mind of an older poster who found Longley to be worthless at some later point? Well, I think you have only said you would read the web page. So who knows. Maybe you will see the "truth" (of whatever part interests you) and become a lifetime member. I just judge the probability as very slight since nobody has so far. So when I say this about new posters, it's really a probability statement, very high in my mind, but of course there are exceptions to everything and I realize I cannot predict what will go on in your mind or be your judge of whether you are indeed making the right decisions. I could argue them with you though. <g>. And don't forget when you encourage Longley you encourage the spam which I hate. But I am ignoring that completely in favor of your opinion of it. And don't forget that I gave your opinion value on the "moral judgement" issue and did act on it - you didn't see me continue that argument. And in fact I have dropped it altogether now, and you were one person who made me question my beliefs. Well, all this is just saying that I hope whatever damage I'm doing re: your opinion of me, maybe it can be cured at some future date. If there is some particular phrasing or mechanisim that I use that is particularly annoying, let me know, and I'll bet I can do something about that. Sorry I didn't have time to write a shorter post. I've been meaning to raise these issues with you. Now I have. Larry P.S. What kind of "PhD" are you? > >-IC, PhD
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